How to Achieve an E-Stim Orgasm in 5 Steps

An e-stim orgasm is unlike anything you’ve felt before.

Using controlled pulses of electricity to stimulate your body’s nervous system, an e-stim orgasm is a powerful, hands-free experience. And while it may sound intense, it’s more accessible (and safe!) than many first-timers expect.

In this guide, we’ll walk you through exactly how to have an electro stimulation orgasm in five simple steps. Maybe you’re just curious about the electrostimulation kink or already super into e-stim, you’ll get all the info you need to explore this type of play safely and confidently.

So, without further ado, let’s get right into it!

What Is Erotic Electrostimulation?

Erotic electrostimulation (or e-stim) involves applying electrical currents through a TENS unit to the body to produce pleasurable sensations. This is different from electrical zaps or shocks – there shouldn’t be any pain involved (unless you’re into that, we don’t judge!) In fact, when done right, exploring the e-stim kink feels more like rhythmic tapping, buzzing, or pulsing.

E-stim is one of the best forms of pleasure for any gender; male e-stim users report intense orgasms just as much as female e-stim users. While e-stim offers a different type of orgasm for female users, the sensations can be enjoyed by anyone, no matter their gender.

The goal is to achieve intense arousal, nerve-deep pleasure, and often, an incredible orgasm. So, if something hurts, something is wrong – your e-stim sex tech toy is either malfunctioning or set to an intensity that is too high for your comfort.

E-stim sex toys work by sending low-voltage pulses through electrodes placed on the skin or inserted into the body. These toys can be standalone TENS units or specialty attachments for remote control vibrators and sex machines like the Motorbunny. For folks into electrostimulation sex, it’s usually a combination of both, as we’ll discuss later on. 

5 Steps to an Incredible E-Stim Orgasm

Now that we’ve covered the basics, you’re probably curious about how to actually incorporate something as strange as electrodes into your sex life. Fear not, we’ll tell you all about it!

In this section, we’ll cover how to experience a TENS unit orgasm in 5 simple steps:

Step 1: Start With Low Intensity

Always begin with the lowest setting on your sex machine, especially if you’re sensitive. E-stim toys are designed to gradually build sensation. Ramping up too quickly can be uncomfortable, especially for beginners. Let your body acclimate to the new experience and increase intensity only when it starts to feel good.

For first-timers, the goal isn’t to "shock" yourself – it's to explore what sensation feels pleasurable. Treat this like a warm-up.

If you’re using a long-distance sex toy with a partner, make sure to communicate this to whoever will be in control during your sessions.

Step 2: Breathe, Relax, and Tune In

E-stim orgasms often come from tuning into the subtleties, so mental focus is key. Take deep breaths and allow yourself to really feel each pulse or rhythm. These sensations can build over time, often leading to deep, involuntary contractions that climax in a hands-free orgasm.

This is true for both male estim users and female estim users. And, although the female e-stim orgasm might feel a little different, your anatomy shouldn’t stand in the way of pleasure. Listen to what your body is telling you and adjust your toys accordingly.

Step 3: Use Water-Based Lube

Lube makes everything smoother and safer. Always use a water-based lubricant on the electrodes and anywhere they make contact with your skin. This improves conductivity and reduces the risk of any uncomfortable hot spots.

For insertable electrodes (like those we usually see on internal sex toys designed for women), water-based lube also makes sure you’re comfortable and that the current flows evenly.

Step 4: Respect Your Limits 

E-stim can create overwhelming sensations at first, so go at your own pace. Pay attention to what feels pleasurable versus too intense, and where you feel the most sensitive. This isn’t a race – it's about exploring your body with a new kind of stimulation.

Pro tip: If something feels off or too strong, pause and adjust. And, again, if you’re using a long-distance app controlled vibrator with an e-stim attachment with a partner, make sure to communicate before getting into it.

Step 5: Find Your Perfect Position

The position you’re in plays a huge role in how e-stim sensations travel. Try lying down, propping your hips with a pillow, or straddling a toy if its size and shape allow for it.

For example, the Motorbunny Original has a sturdy base and adjustable settings, so it’s perfect for experimenting with positions that optimize electrode placement and allow you to fully surrender to the ride.

It also works with the best sex game app - Fluffer, for a more intuitive and precise experience.

If this is your first time trying e-stim, don’t be afraid to have a little fun with it! Try some funky yoga-like positions and see what works best. No matter what the internet tells you, there is no one ‘correct’ way to play with a sex toy.

Bonus Tip: Experiment for a Mind-Blowing Hands-Free Orgasm!

At the end of the day, e-stim is a sex thing. And what’s the point of anything sex-related if not to have fun?

Explore different patterns, electrode placements, and different intensity levels. Try combining e-stim with vibration or temperature play, or introduce a long-distance sex machine for even more excitement.

Use it in a BDSM scene. Use it for a hot homemade video. Use it to kill time between Zoom meetings. We don’t care and we don’t judge – the point is to play around and find what really blows your mind!

Choosing the Right eStim Sex Toy & TENS Units

The Motorbunny Original we’ve previously mentioned can be combined with an e-stim sex machine attachment to give you that intense TENS unit orgasm, pun shamelessly intended.

The way this works is that you can explore erotic electrostimulation by adding the e-stim attachment to your ride for rhythmic, hands-free orgasms. You’ll get both vibration and electrical stimulation, synced to your body.

Estim Contraindications & Risks to Keep in Mind

Yes, exploring the e-stim kink should be fun, but let’s not forget: safety first. Here, we’re going to list out the e-stim contraindications that should be followed at all times.

Do not use electrostimulation of any kind if you:

• Are pregnant,
• Have epilepsy,
• Have a heart condition or pacemaker,
• Are experiencing genital pain, injury, or a known disorder.

Do not use it anywhere on your chest and around the heart – the human body isn’t made for that kind of stimulation.

As with any new kind of play, consult your physician before using a TENS unit for erotic purposes, especially if you have any medical concerns.

Ready to Spark Up the Fun?

Looking to try e-stim sex toys safely and with confidence? The Motorbunny e-stim attachment is the perfect starting point. It connects with your Motorbunny vibrator app and includes all the accessories you need to get started!

Frequently Asked Questions

Can the eStim attachment be used with genital piercings?
We recommend removing any piercings in the area before using e-stim, as metal can conduct electricity, and you are at risk of burns and other injuries. 

Can I use the eStim attachment on other parts of my body?
The Motorbunny e-stim attachment is specifically designed for vaginal use. For external play, a standard e-stim TENS unit with adhesive pads is better suited.

Is the eStim attachment compatible with Motorbunny BUCK?
Currently, the e-stim attachment is not compatible with the Motorbunny BUCK.

What's the best way to get comfortable with the eStim attachment?
Start slow, use lots of lube, and experiment with different positions. Begin with low intensity and focus on breathing and relaxation.

How to Achieve a TENS Machine Orgasm: Final Thoughts

Achieving an e-stim orgasm is about more than just electricity—it’s about discovering new sensations, new ways to interact with your body, and creating pleasure on your own terms.

Whether you’re drawn to the intensity, the deep release of a hands-free orgasm, or simply curious, there’s a safe, satisfying way to get there.

Just remember: listen to your body, start slow, use plenty of lube, and don’t forget to have fun! So, if you’re craving something new, e-stim might just unlock a whole new kind of pleasure.